Abuja-based Nollywood actress of Fulani extraction,
Nazareth Jesse Bako,
may not yet be married but she seems to have a refreshing idea about sex, marriage, love and the concept of God in marriage.
•Nazareth The actress, whom, her father, gave marching orders to get married soonest, about two years ago, wrote a long epistle on her Instagram page on the concept of love and sex in marriage, perhaps, sending us a message why she’s taking her time before taking a dive into the hallowed institution.
In her long epistle, she admits that the ultimate goal of sex is orgasm but maintains that true orgasm does not stem from physical sex but from the total essence of the person whom God has chosen for you.
Hear her: “ Only your spouse can give you sweat less orgasm -your real bone and flesh. If you pick somebody else’s bone, you will suffer sexually for the rest of your marriage life.
When you meet your real bone and flesh, you know! Your whole lives wrap around each other, you love them like no one else, you agree on almost every area of life.
You share dreams, interests, vision, aspirations and you want to die for them! If you spend all your courtship arguing and making up with sex, your marriage will end in the divorce court! In a real, God ordained courtship, you don’t have sex” Although she sounded so philosophical, it appears what Naz was trying to tell us is that courtship or marriage should not be built on sex, as this may be the undoing of the union.“ What brought you together is God, not sex, so you both pursue God with all your hearts and serve Him in holiness.
The respect you both have for God helps you respect and value each other.
You get lost in each other’s world and want to satisfy each other at the deepest level. This is when you get married and can’t wait to explore each other the way no one ever has.
The love you both have propels you to satisfy your spouse and do everything possible to give their body pleasure through sweat less orgasm” she writes, driving home her point that sex is vague and may not be the answer couples need in a union.
“In a Godless relationship, there is nothing to talk about. No vision, no dream, no goals except look into each other’s eyes till you get tired then seal it off with sex,” she added.
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